Because I was getting married in June 2006 I decided not to take any classes summer semester and I was left with a lot of free time on my hands. I filled up most of this time reading the blog of Heather Armstrong, dooce.com. It took me several weeks, but I ended up reading every single entry of hers since 2001, and her site continues to be the one of the few I visit on a daily basis. I routinely send Chris links to things she has written (I don’t think he appreciates it) and I have pretty much told everyone I know to read her site (nobody listens to me), so I was very much looking forward to the reading for “It Sucked and then I Cried,” her book about giving birth to her first daughter.
I went along with Esther (who was actually the person who told me about Dooce.com in the first place, yay Esther!), and we arrived freakishly early. For some reason I expected there to be a line wrapped around the block, because everyone must be as excited about her book reading as I was! But, no, we were the first people there, so we had dinner at Mazza (falafel, yum!), and were still able to nab seats in the front row (after, of course, the bookstore staff, who are consistently rude and stuck up, accused of us of stealing seats reserved for other people. Thanks for being predictable King’s English!).
I don’t consider myself to be the type of person who has heroes, but Heather would probably be pretty close. Not only is she a great, entertaining writer, but her honesty, especially about her battle with depression, is unlike anything I’ve ever read—online or elsewhere.
Another (superficial) reason she is my hero:
This is what she looks like at SEVEN MONTHS PREGNANT!
And these were the high heels she was wearing!
She has inspired me to keep it together during my future pregnancy and not end up wearing the same hoodie, sweat pants and Crocs every single day. (Fingers crossed!)
The reading from the book was great, although a little too short. My signed copy is sitting on my nightstand, and I’m debating whether or not to start reading it. Yes, I love her honesty, but I have heard so many horror stories about child birth and pregnancy in the past couple of years, it is seriously starting to scare me off of ever having children (my maternal instinct is not very strong). But of course knowing what to expect is better than having no clue, I suppose.